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Reference-call script: twelve questions to ask another customer
Thirty minutes with a peer who already made the decision, without the vendor listening.
Insist on calls without the vendor on the line, with customers you choose. The DBSE review pool is a good place to find them; a message through a war room keeps it private.
Opening (2 minutes)
Say what you are deciding, by when, and between which vendors. Ask whether they have any affiliation with the vendor beyond being a customer.
The twelve questions
- What did you replace, and what made you switch?
- How long did deployment actually take, and what surprised you?
- How many hours a week does your team spend running it now?
- Which feature from the demo did you never get working the way it was shown?
- What has support been like at severity one, and at "working as designed"?
- What did the renewal look like, and what uplift did you get?
- Which add-ons did you end up buying, and were they needed?
- What would you do differently in the first ninety days?
- What has the product removed or changed in the last two years that hurt?
- Have you had an incident the product missed, and how was it handled?
- Would you buy it again, today, against the current alternatives?
- Who else should I talk to?
Closing (3 minutes)
Ask permission to quote them anonymously in your internal write-up. Offer the same favour in return. Then write the answers into your scorecard within the hour, while the nuance is fresh.
Published 6 Sep 2026. Free to reuse inside your organisation with attribution to DBSE.